Have a look at these Motiondave http://www.motordrives.com.au/special_projects.asp
Check the right hand column under the picture titled "Movie Theater Chair Drives"
The motors are rated at 350 to 500 Watts and the gear ratios can be specified from 5:1 to 100:1
They are pricey at $380 per unit, but the specs and full metal hardened gears seem to offset this.
Shane